I recently hosted a seminar on men blacks Zahra's Bookstore in Inglewood, California. The group currently consists of about 20 men and 7 women. Our author was a guest Ken Mask, MD, New Orleans, Louisiana. (Title: Murder on the Butt, Luke Jacobs, PI, Park City murder.)
During the two hours, we covered various topics such as what men really care about fatherlessness, how to recognize the silent screams of men, single women need to know when raising a son,Men afraid of commitment and behavior of men broken. However, the most important aspect that we fall, the trust had acquired a son from his father.
Although women were in the seminar were their concerns, because the men had such a fear of commitment. What we concluded, however, is that this fear was often in front of the new requirement due to a lack of a strong father figure in their lives.
Obviously, the best modeling of the men responsible parenthood, fathers may be betterbe.
From the entries made during the seminar, is definitely a need for men blacks, an example of how powerful can be a good father to have influence.
In an ideal world, we all grew up with strong parents in spite of racism, unemployment, alcoholism, prison and the myriad of things that men have a negative impact on blacks. But unfortunately we do not live in ideal world.
So I am a firm believer in bibliotherapy - using books as a way to heal ourAnime.
Often, for blacks, these examples can be found in African American literature.
Here is a list of books that deal with the confidence of a male (or female) to acquire a child by a parent. These are just some of the books. You can create your own list.
Sweet Summer is on the rise, with and without my dad by Bebe Moore Campbell. This book describes how the late Bebe Moore Campbell will visit his father divorced in the summer while she was growing up. AlthoughHe was in a wheelchair, he began to teach her lessons of high sweet femininity.
Sounder by William H. Armstrong. Even if the father is gone sharecropping sent to prison, had a strong presence in the book, and has certainly influenced his son to grow as a man.
In Thunder, Hear My Cry by Mildred D. Taylor, come Cassie Logan and her three brothers to understand why the land they own means so much to their father. "Look out there, Cassie. It 's allThem. She has never anywhere, as long as I live alone and the family live and survive, you will never have. This is important. They fail to understand that now but one day you and then we'll see. "
In the classical roots of Alex Haley was the father of this family saga strong, despite the imprisonment of slavery, Jim Crow and segregation. Who can ever forget the transmission of the history of "Old African" from generation to generation?
In all in the family,Anthology, Janice Sims, Melanie Schuster, Maxine Thompson, the father, Mr. Johnson, a modern farmer and a good father to his four daughters, is helping collect good pals.
Murder on the Butt, Luke Jacobs, PI, Murder City Park, Luke, Jacob, PI, Murder City Park, Ken Mask, MD is reflected as a private detective, the hero, Luke, Jacob again and again what his deceased father would have made the police.
In A Raisin in the Sun, by Lorraine Hansberry. Who can ever forgetface reflects the pride in his son when his father, Walter, said: "We are very proud, and this is my son, which makes the sixth generation of our family in this country ..." Moreover, the fact that his father stood up, refused to sell the house again to close the bigots and did the right thing.
Finally, what is African American literature? They show us a way to live in dignity in the world, despite the racism, fanaticism and poverty?
Back to the seminar at theEnd of the forum, these are some of the solutions we have with fathers.
1. Include God in your life as head of the family.
2. Turn off the television and the Internet and communicate with your children.
3. Take the time to run into old-fashioned pastimes such as Bible study, fishing, camping, bowling.
4. Take time to hug your children.
5. Let your children love them.
As for fathers who have been missing in your children's lives, the time forinvolved with your children, even if they are now adults. It's never too late.
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